Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Nostalgia: What would you miss about Japan if you left?

Lately I have been thinking about what I am doing living here in Japan. Originally, I only wanted to be here for a year or two but now I honestly have no plans to leave in the near future. I'm going back home in August for my sister's wedding and I know that when I go back, it's going to be the exact same as it was last year. I miss my family and close friends a lot and I think about them often but besides that, I love Japan and I can't think of anywhere in the world I'd rather be. I feel healthiest and happiest here. These photos are from this blog, Tokyoundressed, that I've been reading for the past year, but I thought I'd tell you about it. Her photos are often not suitable for work, so don't say that I didn't warn you. Let the blog title be a warning. I think that her photographs are beautiful, though, with a nostalgic quality. I think her photographs capture Japan and Japanese life perfectly.If I moved back, I don't know how I could ever stop thinking about Japan. I know that I'll think about Japan on every January 1st of my life from now on because I hear Auld Lang Syne every day here. It's the song that comes on at around 8 PM in every store and around 11 PM in every restaurant. (Playing Auld Lang Syne means, "closing time: go home" in Japan.) There are so many things I'd miss about Japan if I moved back.

I'd miss seeing everyone's clothes hanging on lines out their apartment windows. I'd miss the train station jingles I know by heart. I'd miss my friends taking pictures of my food before I eat it. I'd miss "ぁ". I'd miss my adorable students. I'd miss all the seasonal fruit and vegetables. I'd miss riding my bike on the sidewalk. I'd miss seeing those towel-ghosts that Japanese children make and hang outside their houses to stop the rain.
I'd miss my phone, better than any phone I could possibly get in any other country. I'd miss hearing people talk about their boyfriend's blood types as indicators of their personalities. I'd miss being able to get natural green tea / mugicha / genmaicha Jasmine tea from a vending machine or a convenience store. I'd miss how guys hold my bag when I go for a walk with them. I'd miss going to the countryside on the weekends.
I'd miss being about to rent CDs at Tsutaya. I'd miss eating Japanese pumpkin for breakfast. I'd miss learning Kanji. I'd miss frozen Konyakkyu Jelly in the summer. I'd miss Warabi Mochi and Ichigo Daifuku. I'd miss how everything is so seasonal here. I'd miss seeing kids with their big, red, square-shaped schoolbags.

What about you?

All pictures by Rikki Kasso from http://tokyoundressed.blogspot.com

10 comments:

Mika said...

I will tell you what I miss...soba!!! You can get it here in NYC, but it's not like being home in Tokyo. :(
Julie, if you have a chance check out my blog www.cream-nyc.com/blog

Julie said...

Thanks for the comment! I love soba, too. I also love the picture of the guy behind the Wagyu beef counter in your blog. Nice blog, Mika.
xox

Fashion Hayley said...

I miss Japan every single day, and its been almost 2 years since I last lived there.
I don't just miss the superficial stuff of parties and fashion. I miss the simple things too, some of which you mentioned. I miss riding my bike to and from work every day and riding to yoyogi park on the weekends. I miss riding my bike on the footpath where I feel safe. I miss the way the changing of seasons is celebrated, you actually notice new flowers in your neighbourhood. I miss eating small healthy food and the way it made me feel energised. I go through periods where I miss Japan like crazy, like I'm missing a part of who I am. However at the same time I'm so happy to be home. It is all so confusing. All I can say is only leave when you are ready, but I know how easy it is to never be ready to leave Japan.

Beth said...

what a great post.

Mary and Sean said...

I'll miss how relaxed Okinawans are... and the minute attention that goes into serving food in this country. I love it! I usually feel surprised and satisfied by the artistic presentation at every restaurant. have to pay a lot of money for that in the states, but here's it's normal...

robofille said...

Your blog is one of my favorites because of all these charming details you share about your Japanese life, and your ability to pull up and share other fantastic blogs on Japan. Thank you. :)

Julie said...

Robofille and beth, Thank you!! I'm so happy that you both read this thing. xox

Anonymous said...

Hey Julie, Rikki Kasso is a guy. Just thought you should know.

Anonymous said...

I never want to live Japan, but I have to go back to the US for 3 months.

The land is beautiful in the countryside, and everyone here is so respectful of each other.

The respectfulness that everyone shows each other is what I am going to miss.

Marc Keen said...

Hi Julie,

I've only been back for 3 months and I am missing Japan so much. I googled and found this page to see if other felt the same way. I only planned to go for 1 year but ended up lived in Tokyo for 3 years as a CG artist. I loved learning the culture and the language, kanji, hanging out with many Japanese friends. I couldn't adjust to the way they work (worked at Japanese companies) and i started to avoid work and my life just became like a long vacation, sitting in cafes studying Japanese and living off savings. I worried about my future and marketability so I came back to US to find work in CA. But i hate it here. LA is the exact opposite of Tokyo. I wasnt crazy about my country BEFORE i went to Japan, but now its worse. I wake up everyday so sad, like part of me is gone, my spirit...like this is a bad dream. I know I will be back in Japan whether its in 1 year or 10 years, I will be back when I can arrange the right job situation.

Things i already miss so much...

- yakitori stand in my neighborhood on Sunday nights.
- not wearing shows inside or putting shoes on chairs
- salaryman riding mamichari
- passing easily on escalators
- clean, safe streets
- best service in the world
- best food in the world
- no need for car
- 100en onigiri (and awesome combini)
- schoolkids with colored hats and big backpacks
- Shinjuku Gyoen with a book and obento on nice day.

i know on the other hand that Japan can be a siren and many have spend years there without even knowing why they are there. It can be enticing and addictive to be noticed and get so much attention, feel 'special', meet lots of pretty women, etc... That's not a good reason to stay, IMHO. But to each their own.

It changed me forever and until I return i have to find some way to endure this god-forsaken society. Police helicopters at night above my apartment. great.

Sorry i'm negative, just still sad and shocked that i chose? to come back here. Thanks for your topic and letting us post.

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