Friday, April 3, 2009

Making Mochi, Okinawan food, cherry blossom parties = best weekend ever

This weekend, I will go to a Hanami and take a walk around a park that is famous for cherry blossoms. They are all in bloom now. The cherry trees really make everything feel fresh and light. even if you've been here for ages, it is still so beautiful to walk around a Japanese park in the Springtime. This weekend, I will make my own Japanese mochi with the little vegan child and his father. This is something I have always wanted to do in Japan. It is certainly the number one "Japanese culture" thing I have always wanted to try. I have little interest in the tea ceremony or in learning karate, but I have a lot of interest in making and eating my own mochi.Here's a picture of my friend Atsushi in Tokyo last year. (Next week I'll have another hanami with Atsushi and his friends in Tokyo.) I can't believe that it has been almost a year since I last saw Thuy. We still talk and write often. Last year, because she was moving back to Denmark, we decided to see all of the cherry blossom parks in Tokyo in only one day. We made it to Inokashira , Shinjuku, Yoyogi and Ueno. I'll go eat Okinawan food with my friend from Okinawa. One of my 1950s rock n roll friends introduced me to one of the dance team members now living in Osaka. I am learning to do the twist, but tomorrow is just eating delicious tofuyou, goya and jimamidoufu.

-One thing I think is ridiculous is when people post rants about their jobs, bosses, co-workers, students, customers on the internet. The internet is forever, as far as we know. What you write will come up on search engines years from now. That's why I don't write anything on here that I'd be humiliated if someone accidentally found. If my co-workers were all awful, I wouldn't write about them on the internet. But they're not awful. My new co-workers are all great. I'm really happy and lucky that I'm able to say that.

-美空ひばりMisora Hibari is one of my favorite Japanese singers. Lately, I have been listening to her a lot, and I highly recommend her. She has a gorgeous, low voice and her music is beautiful. She plays around with all sorts of genres. Sometimes, she sounds like Edith Piaf and sometimes she sounds very traditionally Japanese. I have also been listening to Amalia Rodriguez and her song "Fado dos Fados" makes me hold my breath. It is so good. Lately, I have been listening to this kind of music a lot. I've also been listening to The Tenniscoats, Pocopen & Nishiwaki and Yura Yura Teikoku.
And non-Japanese songs I've been listening to on repeat lately...
Beach House -Heart of Chambers
Ratatat - Montanita
The Ronettes - Be My Baby
Caribou - Melody Day
Serge Gainsbourg - La Decadance
Pavement - Harness your hopes

-Have any of you been to Ibaraki? I've been invited there. I know it's famous for natto.
What else is there?

Sometimes I meet people who are getting tired of Japan and want to move back home.
I have not felt that yet at all. Japan is the easiest place to live. I feel happiest and healthiest in Japan. I know I'll leave someday, but I think it may be a while. I only miss my family and friends.

12 comments:

Reannon said...

Well if you're going to be in Tokyo, let me know! I'll be house sitting for a friend in Roppongi for the next few weeks so if you're around, let me know. I was sorry I didn't get to meet up with you in Kyoto.

Anyways, blogging about your life on the internet is tough. I've written a lot of rants about my job...some of which I regret. I mean, my old boss used to read my blog and thought it was funny. Most of my complaints about my students were something he was well aware of...so none of it was a secret. But I worry that future employers will google me and misinterpret what I've written.

Anyways, it's definitely something that everyone has to be careful about. I have a friend who was fired from her last job for a comment she made about her job on her blog. The comment was a positive one but by mentioning her companies name, she'd unwittingly broken some sort of confidentiality agreement. Her company was looking to lay off people and used her to set an example.

Sometimes I wish I had an anonymous blog for just that reason...

gynnephur said...

i will definitely take your music recommendation because i love all the songs you listed + the tenniscoats. incidentally, your blog is great!!

Kelsey in Japan said...

Maybe it's wrong that I complain about my coworkers on the internet, but they complain about Americans in front of me in Japanese. So I guess that makes me feel that it's ok. Plus my blog is a way for lots of my family and friends to connect with me for free.

And some ppl read my blog out of curiosity of what it's like to live and work in Japan. I definitely can't sugarcoat it and I do say that my job is very different from most.

In the same breath, I totally love and respect my boss. He's a very honest and humble man, who's serious about his religion. I find that genuine people like him and his wife are incredibly rare in this area of Japan. I think some of the young women who work where I do, don't care about their job and just come for the money. Which is very very sad.

Anyone who comes to Japan is bound to meet at least one person like that. Like some of the gaijin men who just come to Japan to meet "Japanese booty".

Also I work in an area that has a huge American military base, which I think brings a lot of headache and stereotype to my job.

As much as I complain about my job, I still try to point out the pluses and the kids are usually the best part.

So I guess I don't really mind talking about my job.

Sometimes we have to point out the good and bad in every situation.

Kira Petersson-Martin said...

Not really related, but I bought some durian the other day based on your recommendation. I think there might be something wrong with me, because I liked the smell (a lot) but was not fond of the taste! I thought it smelled like herbed cream cheese, but when I started eating it, it tasted like herbed cream cheese mixed with melon. I hate hate hate sweet cream cheeses (like strawberry cream cheese - blech) so I just couldn't get into it.

But I really don't get why everyone thinks it stinks!

-LD- said...

Same here! I've been in Japan for almost 7 months and will go back to my country in 4 months. I really miss my family and friends but dont really wanna go back home. I've actually made plans on coming back to Japan even before I leave this place..

Julie said...

Oh Kelsey! I didn't mean that at all. There is nothing wrong with ranting about your job. Some of my funniest and most entertaining friends crack me up with their imitations of co-workers and their descriptions about their wretched work situations.

I just meant that I would feel so weird ever posting bad job-related things on the internet because what if my boss or co-workers found it on a search engine?

That's why I don't post pictures of my students or co-workers, too, even though I have a million great photos.

I'm so private about the internet that I don't even write about what TYPE of school I work at in Japan.

NOTHING against anyone complaining about their jobs, especially in a funny way!! Everyone keep doing that on yr blogs, please. It is very entertaining.

Whisky said...

hello julie,

speaking of googling someone in search engine.., a Japanese friend of mine googled me the other day, and he said that he found me through my past comment that i made on your website and thought i was hitting on you for some reasons... which was not my intention..

i am so sorry to ask you to do this, but if it's possible.. could you please delete my past comment? i thought it's not a big deal, but it might be because my real name is on your website..., and i just dont want to stir any confusion over this.. ;)

I made my comment over this post...

http://www.julieinjapan.com/2008/12/if-you-can-read-this-lets-be-friends.html?widgetType=BlogArchive&widgetId=BlogArchive1&action=toggle&dir=close&toggle=MONTHLY-1228118400000&toggleopen=MONTHLY-1228118400000

my FB address is written there..
"eijiro" is the name.. and i said i live in suginami...

also, could you not post this comment either since someone can probably google this too.. sorry for the big trouble. I thought Internet is such a convenient tool yet there are downsides.. -_-

oh well.. but hey! ur blog is awesome :)

love reading ur blog!

Curly Wurly said...

I have never been to Japan BUT i hope to go there someday, to live there I would LOVE to but that would mean to try and twist my husband's arm to work there :-D its good to know you have positive look towards Japan, I absolutely cant stand it when people say its expensive to go to Japan, its very discouraging when I hear that all the time from someone whenever i voice out my plans to go to this beautiful country. I know its expensive isnt everywhere else the same?

Julie said...

Reannon!
I'll be in Tokyo from Friday to Monday. I'll have free time on Saturday in the early afternoon if you want to meet up...you have my number / mail now. Let me know if you're free. It would be cool to take a picture with you in a little photo sticker booth. Haha. Or something.

Julie said...

sorry, whisky, I can't read the link.

Whisky said...

julie

u could probably copy and paste the link, but thats ok. no problem. i am not a celebrity, so it's probably not going to be a big deal.

sorry for the trouble.
;)

Kelsey in Japan said...

Julie,
Don't worry I wasn't accusing you or anything. After thinking about your post, I decided it does make a lot of sense to edit some things we type on the internet. I realized that I shouldn't display the kids' names. Pictures aren't such a biggie to me, but I've discovered that posting names isn't such a good idea.

I think you can still have an interesting blog without writing about your actual job, but it's not really "teaching in Japan" is it? I'm sure your readers would love to know more about your job--maybe not where you work and what company or such, but more of the age groups you teach, how you teach them, and etc...just an idea.

Anyway hope all is well!
Peace,
Kelsey

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